Gets Spanked Mother To Spank Or Not To Spank And Mother In Law's Stance...?

To spank or not to spank and Mother In Law's stance...? - gets spanked mother

Well, we do not believe in spanking (forgive me if it does not). However, I do not believe in spanking my children to believe others. After my mother to the child told me that I said to teach my oldest son (2 years), my husband was not acceptable to affect our children and said, "Your mother is also" my husnand looked surprised and said: "Your mother hello SHE'S YOU! Well, what to do, where and when our children are given a bad thing at first sight for 30 seconds and schold aloud and then give him a hug for 30 seconds. I saw my father and says without harm to my children, but said the stepfather in the homes of others and we are often the wrong way, because there is lessal. I do not know if he succeeds ... I'm worried about when and how to discipline our children ... But how can we know for sure. The last time we choose our children are our greatest Sprange acts and that he did not eat dinner, which is rare for him, would cover only sit on the sofa. It is disturbing. I do not want not to allow day care and needs a break sometimes, but what we can do / say. It is also difficult because they were my sister, who is 6 years old living with his aged 1 year and are essentially the increase in order ... Obviously there is a line where the parents are our children, in contrast to aACTUAL SIL but still difficult.